Trust - The last process is a biggie. It is perhaps the most difficult to accomplish as it requires a total and fearless trust in the knowledge of the Universe to provide exactly what you need to realize your dreams and to create the life you crave. All you have to do is to trust what your heart has to say. Let me first explain that what your heart has to say is usually in exact opposition to what your head will tell you. That's because your true self , your soul, resides in you heart, where as your personality or your ego resides in your logical brain. As a society we tend to listen to the loud logical voice of our egos more often than our hearts which is why it is sometimes difficult to hear our hearts. It's faint voice is often muffled by the noise of all the things we should or shouldn't do or say. Which is also why we often find ourselves doing or saying things we don't want to do or don't want to say.
We need to turn the tables on which voice we decide to listen to. You have a choice. It has been my personal experience the more you tune into that inner voice, the more you actually listen to what it has to say - that once faint voice grows louder and stronger and will guide you in whatever you need to do.
Let me tell you about my favorite beige shoes. I loved those shoes, they matched practically everything I owned. Yet every now and then, one of the heels would twist in such a way that would almost land me face down in the street. Every time that would happen I'd say to myself '' these shoes are going to hurt me one of these days '' and then continue on my way. Then it occurred to me. I wasn't listening to that inner voice.
Did I really need to end up in an emergency room with a sprained ankle all the while telling myself '' I knew this was going to happen ''
How many times have we all known something was going to happen before it did ? This happens all the time simply because we didn't listen to that inner voice, the one that told us ahead of time what was about to happen. So why didn't we listen ? Because we don't trust what we're hearing. Sometimes we don't even like what we're hearing and we choose to ignore it. We'd rather rationalize something the way our logical brains do before making a decision. A decision we often regret because it was based on what you should do, or shouldn't do and not on what you knew in your heart you HAD to do.
I threw the shoes out that evening and to this day I continue to honour and strengthen anything and everything my heart has to say.
Your heart, you inner voice is trying to communicate with you every day. All you have to do is listen and act on what it's telling you. I guarantee you will eliminate many unwanted incidents or troubled relationships and develop a sense of authenticity that will only strengthen your belief in yourself. Knowing your heart will bring you all the joy, success and love you could possibly imagine - what are you waiting for ?